The Ultimate Self-Love
There is no shame in feeling yourself. In fact, a recent survey revealed that 84% of us like to get hands-on. IMO, giving yourself an orgasm is one of the highest forms of self-care. "Oh, oh, oh...om." And did you know that women over 40 actually have the best orgasms? This clitoral vibrator--which feels like oral sex--from Womanizer ($139) can help you get there too. It has an autopilot feature so it doesn't feel predictable and the "smart silence" technology makes it very discreet. I love that this little device is actually quite chic in the black/gold style--and it's my latest "me time" splurge. For more tips on how to have more great, healthy sex after 40, check out this smart article.